For a minute, consider how crucial it is to look at the other person to fully get what they are saying. Even if someone is conveying one thing with their words, you can often get an idea of what they really mean by the expression on their face or the way they behave.
Let's say you're at a desk right now, and you hear a voice. What proof do you have about their state of mind right now – beyond their speech and tone of voice?
An agent's ability to empathize with and understand customers is essential for the success of any call center, and this sensitivity or awareness might require some additional training. Emotional intelligence is vital in such situations.
"The capacity to recognize and manage one's own feelings and the sentiments of others," is how we usually define emotional intelligence (EI/EQ).
It's obvious why this idea might be crucial to an agent's effectiveness. Knowing how to read or understand a customer's emotions can help you provide outstanding service, which will satisfy both the customer and the organization you work for.
The Power of High EQ
Academic research published in 2021 shows that call center employees with higher levels of emotional intelligence are more productive and go through far fewer periods of burnout.
EQ was brought to popular notice by Daniel Goleman, but it was defined and outlined by the scholars John Mayer and Peter Salovey in the 1990s. Notably, Goleman said that EI had five parts: self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, motivation, and social skills.
You have greater control over your responses because of a higher level of emotional intelligence. Smarter decisions or choices happen proactively, leading to favorable outcomes. Even when things are stressful – like when dealing with an irate client – you're calmer, more controlled, and your responses are measured.
That’s why EQ is vital for contact centers.
How to Raise Your Emotional Intelligence Quotient
To increase one’s EQ and weave emotional intelligence into customer interactions, follow these tips:
A. Becoming more self-aware
In this first aspect, agents can improve their EQ through these steps:
1. Learn to look at yourself objectively and without bias. Explore your own strengths and weaknesses, backed by performance data and manager reviews.
2. Maintain detailed logs of interactions to later analyze how you felt and dealt with those feelings.
3. Acknowledge triggers and know when to take a break and detach yourself from the work.
B. Regulating oneself
When it comes to self-regulation, agents can improve their EQ by:
4. Allow yourself to feel emotions without getting carried away. A physical change, like getting up from one’s seat, can sometimes help “snap out of it.”
5. Maintain a schedule. Sticking to a predictable task flow can improve your emotional intelligence by fostering discipline.

